Symptoms of the crisis of 30 years
Surely most of us have heard such a phrase as “middle-aged crisis,” but for some reason the majority associates it only with males, which in fact is far from true.…

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What are the reasons and what to do if the children do not want to communicate with their father or mother after a divorce
Documents have already been received, announcing the dissolution of the marriage, the issue of the child’s residence has been resolved and the days and times of his meetings with one…

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Avoiding guilt and overcoming conscience
Since the diapers of each of us have been accustomed to the fact that for each misconduct must be held accountable. Every extra word spoken can cause a storm of…

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Why do good families break up?

The psychology of relationships in the family is not an easy topic, psychologists devote a lot of time to it, conduct research, look for causes, consequences.

Let’s talk about the most common reasons leading to difficulties, misunderstanding in the family, lack of understanding:

The presence of an ideal image – the presence of a highly detailed ideal image makes it difficult to meet the necessary person in life. People often do not realize that we live in the real world, where ideals do not exist, spouses have advantages and disadvantages. These people seek to fit their spouse to the desired image, which is unlikely and leads to disappointment. Conclusion: to learn to love a person, not a ghostly image, to accept a loved one along with shortcomings. Continue reading

How does self-improvement affect relationships?

Self-development and family – interconnected concepts, how does personality and level of development affect the state of the family – the possibility of formation, strength of relationship, the ability to receive joy from life? In this article, we consider the main points that contribute to a happy family relationship, discover the secrets of a strong family.
In modern society, the decline of the institution of the family is observed, often young families break up without having lived a year (up to 50% of all divorces). But in general, no more than 60% of marriage unions remain viable. What is the reason: living conditions, education, people have changed?

Psychologists say that the reason in the people themselves – often do not know how to build relationships, do not understand the needs of the spouse and do not aspire to become a good husband or wife, and yet – are not mentally and financially ready to build a family.

Often, internal egoism prevails over a feeling of love for a loved one. And even loving, we don’t think Continue reading

How to define Love or Fall in Love: 5 differences of feelings

The difference between love and falling in love
how to find differences from love and love
So, what is the difference between love and love:

Love is superficial, and love is deep. A lover is a person who cannot imagine his life without a chosen one.
A person in love thinks more about his pleasure from his beloved person, and may not even notice how he feels and what the other wants.
Falling in love can pass as soon as passions subside, and love only grows stronger over the years, blooms.
Love melts like snow in the sun, as soon as a person shows his other side. The idealization of the subject was barely asleep (for example, a person committed an unseemly act, fell ill, losing attractiveness), as the desire to take care of him, to be near does not appear.
Falling in love can be destructive, and love can create and create. For example, a person in love can fight Continue reading

What causes male anger and irritation
dinner and a woman differ from each other, not only in their appearance and character, but also in their psychology and attitude to the same events. Knowing this fact will…

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Family Contract Basics Questionnaire
Questionnaire "Fundamentals of a family contract" - a list of questions developed by N.I. Kozlov for the prevention of disagreements in the family. Based on the Questionnaire, a Family Agreement…

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Conflictology of family life
Causes of Family Conflicts Many family problems did not arise yesterday. Incomplete families, divorces, marital conflicts, problems of loneliness existed in the past, but did not attract such close attention.…

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Operation "Save Love" has begun!
And yet, if you find yourself among the lucky ones who just have temporary difficulties that need, and most importantly can be fixed, then here you are. To begin with,…

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