The psychology of relationships in the family is not an easy topic, psychologists devote a lot of time to it, conduct research, look for causes, consequences.
Let’s talk about the most common reasons leading to difficulties, misunderstanding in the family, lack of understanding:
The presence of an ideal image – the presence of a highly detailed ideal image makes it difficult to meet the necessary person in life. People often do not realize that we live in the real world, where ideals do not exist, spouses have advantages and disadvantages. These people seek to fit their spouse to the desired image, which is unlikely and leads to disappointment. Conclusion: to learn to love a person, not a ghostly image, to accept a loved one along with shortcomings. Continue reading
Self-development and family – interconnected concepts, how does personality and level of development affect the state of the family – the possibility of formation, strength of relationship, the ability to receive joy from life? In this article, we consider the main points that contribute to a happy family relationship, discover the secrets of a strong family.
In modern society, the decline of the institution of the family is observed, often young families break up without having lived a year (up to 50% of all divorces). But in general, no more than 60% of marriage unions remain viable. What is the reason: living conditions, education, people have changed?
Psychologists say that the reason in the people themselves – often do not know how to build relationships, do not understand the needs of the spouse and do not aspire to become a good husband or wife, and yet – are not mentally and financially ready to build a family.
Often, internal egoism prevails over a feeling of love for a loved one. And even loving, we don’t think Continue reading
Since the diapers of each of us have been accustomed to the fact that for each misconduct must be held accountable. Every extra word spoken can cause a storm of indignation, as well as be condemned. On the one hand, this is very good, because, inspiring guilt, we were instilled with control over our own behavior, showing by example what is “good” and what is “bad”. Only one problem – if you go too far with this technique, in the future you can get a person with a full complex of guilt, which he will experience even for the most minor misconduct. And if sometimes a similar (guilt) feeling is necessary, then sometimes it can become a serious life obstacle. That is why you need to figure out for yourself how to get rid of guilt.
Guilt – feeling and remorse are devoid of meaning and meaning. These are feelings, experiences. Not Continue reading