How does self-improvement affect relationships?
Self-development and family - interconnected concepts, how does personality and level of development affect the state of the family - the possibility of formation, strength of relationship, the ability to…

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The period of passionate love and honeymoon passes into a life filled with disappointments and everyday problems.
The period of passionate love and honeymoon, passes into a life filled with disappointments and domestic problems. Psychologists note 7 situations when a woman experiences difficulties in marriage and needs…

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How to define Love or Fall in Love: 5 differences of feelings
The difference between love and falling in love how to find differences from love and love So, what is the difference between love and love: Love is superficial, and love…

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Not expressed emotions as a source of problems

Emotion is an internal subjective attitude of a person to the ongoing processes that surround him. It can be both internal and external stimuli.

emotions as a source of problems
At this point in time, there are two different explanations for the origin of emotions:

physiological (represented by Kennon, James Lange)
psychological (represented by the works of V.P. Simonov)
The difference between these theories is a different understanding and interpretation of the various mechanisms that create the emotional background of a person.

In physiological theory, there are two currents that try to explain the processes of occurrence. The peripheral theory is well expressed in one of the most famous paradoxes and sounds like this: “We feel sad because we are crying; we are afraid because we are trembling. ” According to the authors of the Continue reading

The role of men in the family

The basic qualities that characterize male behavior have not changed much from past centuries. They, as before, remain strength of mind and strength of character, courage and responsibility, the ability to take on the solution of problems for themselves, protect their loved ones and ensure their well-being. A real man is one who knows how to make a decision, and takes full responsibility for it.
The male destiny in the framework of modern society is no longer the ability to earn money to support a family, or to have excellent physical fitness to be ready to defend the homeland. These qualities are undoubtedly very important in the formation of personality, but you should not limit yourself to them only.
The image of a man who should be “a little prettier than a monkey” is no longer relevant. Modern men are Continue reading

Symptoms of the crisis of 30 years

Surely most of us have heard such a phrase as “middle-aged crisis,” but for some reason the majority associates it only with males, which in fact is far from true. The crisis of 30 years in women is as common as the middle-aged crisis in men, the only difference in symptoms.
35 years is an insidious figure. When you finally get your head on your shoulders, but your body begins to fall apart. © Karin Lesh
It’s not worth it if you encounter a similar problem to start to panic, since this is a completely natural process – we begin to comprehend the stage we have passed, to compare our achievements with our plans and dreams. In some cases, such a turning point is even necessary, because it helps you look at your life Continue reading

Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist
Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted…

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How to revive relationships and restore intimacy?
“Love lives for three years” - such an idea was put forward by the famous French writer. It would seem that long-term marriages are clear evidence of the opposite, but…

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Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist
Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted…

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Perfect man through the eyes of men
A survey on the parameters of a man’s ideality showed that not all guys are ready to give an answer: "everything is individual, different criteria"; "never thought"; "hard to say…

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