The golden rules of psychology that change lives and make us happier
The rules of psychology, what are they and why are they needed? We live in a rapidly developing world, constantly in contact with people, strive for something or fall into…

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Wife like mom
“How can this be? I did everything for him! Who was he when we met? Yes, he didn’t know how to relate the two words, I even helped graduate from…

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How to know that he is the one?
But it usually starts small. How to recognize love? Another person suddenly causes you emotions - not always positive. It can be surprise, interest, or even negative feelings. But it…

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Love addiction

When he’s not around, I just can’t breathe! I do not know what to do, all my thoughts are occupied by him and only him! Sometimes, when we see each other – I’m as if on top of bliss, feelings overwhelm me, it’s a delight! But I have so little of it!

I have tantrums, yes. He leaves again – everything repeats again, I feel bad, hard, sometimes shakes me, I can’t sleep normally. And all life is like a swing, now up and down. I’m very tired….

… When she is nearby – I just have a surge of energy, a fountain of enthusiasm, I can do anything, I’m ready to roll mountains! But as soon as she is not around – weakness, apathy, lethargy, I do not want anything. I constantly think about her. And even when I know that we will not see each other today, I continue to fantasize how good it would be if we spent this evening together …

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Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist

Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted and borrowed for many years. In this book, the reader will find specific working methods, vivid cases from practice and, more importantly, ideas that help to better understand not only their clients, but also their own professional and family history.
The book is addressed to everyone who in their work is connected with family issues: consultants, school and clinical psychologists and, of course, psychotherapists.

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Family Contract Basics Questionnaire

Questionnaire “Fundamentals of a family contract” – a list of questions developed by N.I. Kozlov for the prevention of disagreements in the family. Based on the Questionnaire, a Family Agreement is created.
Falling in love, charm, candy-bouquet period – all this is beautiful and romantic, but when young people begin to live together, they live in some kind of reality. In which? Before creating a responsible relationship, it is important to get to know each other seriously, and the Questionnaire helps a lot.

Everyone who marries has an idea of ​​a future family life, but for the majority of people, the picture of their future life is very vague, and, most importantly, for him and her, they are significantly different. Continue reading

How to define Love or Fall in Love: 5 differences of feelings
The difference between love and falling in love how to find differences from love and love So, what is the difference between love and love: Love is superficial, and love…

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What prevents youth self-actualization
Here are some of the most basic problems of youth self-fulfillment. Social Inconsistency It is unlikely that someone in childhood dreams of becoming a successful plumber or loader. Everyone wants…

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Avoiding guilt and overcoming conscience
Since the diapers of each of us have been accustomed to the fact that for each misconduct must be held accountable. Every extra word spoken can cause a storm of…

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Self-doubt: how to learn to love and respect yourself if you are a teenager?
“How to love yourself?” - ask such a question to the teenager and be sure - you will enter him into a stupor, as they obviously will not find the…

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