Conflictology of family life
Causes of Family Conflicts Many family problems did not arise yesterday. Incomplete families, divorces, marital conflicts, problems of loneliness existed in the past, but did not attract such close attention.…

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What causes male anger and irritation
dinner and a woman differ from each other, not only in their appearance and character, but also in their psychology and attitude to the same events. Knowing this fact will…

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Change of roles
Each person comes to this world with a specific purpose, each has his own specific place. The main task of the individual is implementation in a society. But in this…

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Love addiction

When he’s not around, I just can’t breathe! I do not know what to do, all my thoughts are occupied by him and only him! Sometimes, when we see each other – I’m as if on top of bliss, feelings overwhelm me, it’s a delight! But I have so little of it!

I have tantrums, yes. He leaves again – everything repeats again, I feel bad, hard, sometimes shakes me, I can’t sleep normally. And all life is like a swing, now up and down. I’m very tired….

… When she is nearby – I just have a surge of energy, a fountain of enthusiasm, I can do anything, I’m ready to roll mountains! But as soon as she is not around – weakness, apathy, lethargy, I do not want anything. I constantly think about her. And even when I know that we will not see each other today, I continue to fantasize how good it would be if we spent this evening together …

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Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist

Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted and borrowed for many years. In this book, the reader will find specific working methods, vivid cases from practice and, more importantly, ideas that help to better understand not only their clients, but also their own professional and family history.
The book is addressed to everyone who in their work is connected with family issues: consultants, school and clinical psychologists and, of course, psychotherapists.

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Family Contract Basics Questionnaire

Questionnaire “Fundamentals of a family contract” – a list of questions developed by N.I. Kozlov for the prevention of disagreements in the family. Based on the Questionnaire, a Family Agreement is created.
Falling in love, charm, candy-bouquet period – all this is beautiful and romantic, but when young people begin to live together, they live in some kind of reality. In which? Before creating a responsible relationship, it is important to get to know each other seriously, and the Questionnaire helps a lot.

Everyone who marries has an idea of ​​a future family life, but for the majority of people, the picture of their future life is very vague, and, most importantly, for him and her, they are significantly different. Continue reading

Why do good families break up?
The psychology of relationships in the family is not an easy topic, psychologists devote a lot of time to it, conduct research, look for causes, consequences. Let's talk about the…

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The period of passionate love and honeymoon passes into a life filled with disappointments and everyday problems.
The period of passionate love and honeymoon, passes into a life filled with disappointments and domestic problems. Psychologists note 7 situations when a woman experiences difficulties in marriage and needs…

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"We quarrel over trifles"
In fact, nothing happens. Many often confuse the cause and the cause of the conflict. Really, any “trifle” can become a reason - he did not call from work, which…

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How to become a good wife
It is not difficult to become a good wife, because many qualities have been inherent in you for a long time. Even in childhood, a mother teaches her daughter how…

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