Sometimes the stories of couples who are on the verge of a divorce begin with proud words – “we lived in perfect harmony for two years and never quarreled, but then, unexpectedly …”. Those who are alone tormented by doubts about the future also touch on this topic: “we have continuous family conflicts, perhaps the only way out is to leave.”
And there are completely radical options: as soon as a semblance of a quarrel arises, one of the couple is ready to immediately slam the door and leave. Sometimes forever. Without trying to resolve conflicts in a relationship. Because in the minds of many quarrels are something that should not be in family life, otherwise it cannot be considered either “successful”, “successful” or even “normal”. The popular picture of the constantly pouring molasses on both sides, it turns out, is terribly tenacious. And alas, it is very destructive.
There is another extreme. When people don’t even wonder “how to build a dialogue?” When they resigned themselves to swearing. Such couples are already tired of posing as a happy family, and now Continue reading
It is not difficult to become a good wife, because many qualities have been inherent in you for a long time. Even in childhood, a mother teaches her daughter how to cook or housekeeping – in short, to be a good housewife. This is an important skill for the wife – to feed her husband and children deliciously, to create home comfort, having to clean, wash and stroke everything. This is taught by many girls, but not all of them later successfully put these skills into practice, and a good wife successfully copes with all these tasks – either by herself or by attracting family members to help, but always with love.
Caring for others and cheerfulness are other important qualities of a good wife, and she is valued above the first by smart men. A woman fills a house with joy and light, it depends on her responsiveness and good mood whether life in it will be happy.
A faithful friend and colleague for the spouse – this is another quality inherent in the definition of “good wife”. The girl was lucky if in childhood dad was involved in the upbringing process and taught his daughter, having removed excessive emotionality, to use his mind and try to prevent words from diverging from the deed. These Continue reading
For most of us, shyness is a sign of something very sweet, kind, even plush. In our eyes, a shy person automatically becomes either a knight or a princess. But in reality, everything is far from being so cute when it comes to oneself, right? After all, to be completely honest, shyness is the same self-doubt, just a side view, and it sends life very much, starting from childhood. There isn’t enough courage to answer the teacher’s question, even if you know the lesson perfectly well, you’re afraid to get to know a new person – in the end, you come to the conclusion that the best solution to the problem is invisibility, some invisibility among society. The purpose of this article is to help many of us go out and finally lose our invisibility cloak and understand how to learn to love and respect ourselves.
Everything reaches me pretty slowly, but I’m embarrassed when something doesn’t work with strangers, and then it completely stops working, and I’m embarrassed even more … © Max Fry
What is shyness? Its manifestations and consequences
Drawing on the writings of a renowned British psychologist, Raymond Cattel, who devoted much of his Continue reading