What to do if you fell out of love with your husband. What to do if love is gone.
Sometimes it happens that until recently a bride in love, after a while realizes that she does not love her husband and she is tormented by the question of how…

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What is shyness? Its manifestations and consequences
For most of us, shyness is a sign of something very sweet, kind, even plush. In our eyes, a shy person automatically becomes either a knight or a princess. But…

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How to revive relationships and restore intimacy?
“Love lives for three years” - such an idea was put forward by the famous French writer. It would seem that long-term marriages are clear evidence of the opposite, but…

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burdens of divorce

A brief tutorial on resolving family conflicts

Sometimes the stories of couples who are on the verge of a divorce begin with proud words – “we lived in perfect harmony for two years and never quarreled, but then, unexpectedly …”. Those who are alone tormented by doubts about the future also touch on this topic: “we have continuous family conflicts, perhaps the only way out is to leave.”

And there are completely radical options: as soon as a semblance of a quarrel arises, one of the couple is ready to immediately slam the door and leave. Sometimes forever. Without trying to resolve conflicts in a relationship. Because in the minds of many quarrels are something that should not be in family life, otherwise it cannot be considered either “successful”, “successful” or even “normal”. The popular picture of the constantly pouring molasses on both sides, it turns out, is terribly tenacious. And alas, it is very destructive.

There is another extreme. When people don’t even wonder “how to build a dialogue?” When they resigned themselves to swearing. Such couples are already tired of posing as a happy family, and now Continue reading

Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist

Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted and borrowed for many years. In this book, the reader will find specific working methods, vivid cases from practice and, more importantly, ideas that help to better understand not only their clients, but also their own professional and family history.
The book is addressed to everyone who in their work is connected with family issues: consultants, school and clinical psychologists and, of course, psychotherapists.

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Family Contract Basics Questionnaire

Questionnaire “Fundamentals of a family contract” – a list of questions developed by N.I. Kozlov for the prevention of disagreements in the family. Based on the Questionnaire, a Family Agreement is created.
Falling in love, charm, candy-bouquet period – all this is beautiful and romantic, but when young people begin to live together, they live in some kind of reality. In which? Before creating a responsible relationship, it is important to get to know each other seriously, and the Questionnaire helps a lot.

Everyone who marries has an idea of ​​a future family life, but for the majority of people, the picture of their future life is very vague, and, most importantly, for him and her, they are significantly different. Continue reading

What should be a man in the eyes of a woman?
Men: the perfect man, what is he? Women all their lives live in search of the ideal life partner, I wonder what kind of ideal man he is through the…

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Women's self-esteem, how to become happy and loved?
How to love yourself and increase self-esteem? The question is important and relevant in the presence of life difficulties, especially on the personal front. Often women tend to sacrifice their…

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Wife like mom
“How can this be? I did everything for him! Who was he when we met? Yes, he didn’t know how to relate the two words, I even helped graduate from…

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How to revive relationships and restore intimacy?
“Love lives for three years” - such an idea was put forward by the famous French writer. It would seem that long-term marriages are clear evidence of the opposite, but…

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