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Become what I want! Or a strong desire to change a partner.

It sometimes seems to us that if a person living next to us changes dramatically the way we want it, then family life will get better right away, it will become just perfect. But this practically does not happen.

A changed husband or wife can, on the contrary, worsen the situation in the family – after all, you once fell in love with this particular person. With its shortcomings and good sides. And he suddenly began to come home from work on time, to look into your eyes and wait for the next instructions for the day. He readily fulfills all your desires and all this without objection and annoying bickering. And always close at hand. The robot is simple, not human, you say in a couple of months. Where is your personality and past, even if not very liked, hobbies? Abrupt changes in a person can still suggest some of his troubles.

Try to analyze what exactly you do not like about your soul mate. He comes home late, ate quickly and went about his hobbies – neither talk, nor help you, etc.? And admit to yourself that the husband sees and hears something interesting or pleasant for himself when he gets home from work. Imagine that you and he came home tired, in a not very good mood – the partners ruined it. And then your husband asks you right at the door – what are you with a displeased face in the house? I’ve been spinning all day, like a squirrel in a wheel, then tidy up, now with the children, then cook, then again with the children. And in the evening you appear, forever you are all the same – no, to ask how I have been here all day without squatting. It turns out that you need to change not only him, but you too. Maybe you first. After all, a woman is a storehouse of wisdom and was created by the universe, including in order to skillfully smooth sharp corners, find a compromise, teach her children love and understanding. Therefore, do not be afraid to admit your small mistakes, your sometimes unreasonable incontinence and become, a little different, with your spouse.

Discuss problems and possible solutions.

.Sometimes, the situation in the family is such that it only emphasizes our inability or unwillingness to hear our partner. But it seems to be quite simple – to discuss your problems, so to speak, at a round table. Seeing the spouse’s tense face, do not make hasty conclusions that he is angry with you and is ready to clarify the relationship. You can ask him, and maybe tell me something according to the situation, or just sympathize. Friendly tone and your goodwill can do wonders. Did you eat and go play a computer? So what – because he did not go to his neighbor to drink vodka. It’s easier for him to relieve stress in the game. You can not make a tragedy out of it, but, if possible, take part in it or, in a good way, comment on it.

Do not be afraid to give praise to both children and your spouse.

Remember the last time you told your soul mate that you love and need him. That you simply cannot imagine how you would be without it. That he is well done simply because next and further you yourself will find something to say. No need to look for a reason – just praise just that, just try sincerely. After all, you are pleased when you are told compliments, and why you think that only you are worthy of praise. A good word and praise can quickly lead to the desired result.

Learn to understand and accept your spouse as he is.

In your opinion, he is doing something wrong, long or slow. And you think that he does this even though – the other one does not want to do this at all. It annoys you that he sits for a long time in the toilet, or is used to eating, not looking up to look at the computer, or something else. But is this really so badly hurting your family? Perhaps you also have some kind of habits that are not to your spouse’s liking. Try to negotiate and get rid of them together – each for its own part.
It sometimes seems to us that if a person living next to us changes dramatically the way we want it, then family life will get better right away, it will become just perfect. But this practically does not happen.

A changed husband or wife can, on the contrary, worsen the situation in the family – after all, you once fell in love with this particular person. With its shortcomings and good sides. And he suddenly began to come home from work on time, to look into your eyes and wait for the next instructions for the day. He readily fulfills all your desires and all this without objection and annoying bickering. And always close at hand. The robot is simple, not human, you say in a couple of months. Where is your personality and past, even if not very liked, hobbies? Abrupt changes in a person can still suggest some of his troubles.

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