Self-development and family – interconnected concepts, how does personality and level of development affect the state of the family – the possibility of formation, strength of relationship, the ability to receive joy from life? In this article, we consider the main points that contribute to a happy family relationship, discover the secrets of a strong family.
In modern society, the decline of the institution of the family is observed, often young families break up without having lived a year (up to 50% of all divorces). But in general, no more than 60% of marriage unions remain viable. What is the reason: living conditions, education, people have changed?
Psychologists say that the reason in the people themselves – often do not know how to build relationships, do not understand the needs of the spouse and do not aspire to become a good husband or wife, and yet – are not mentally and financially ready to build a family.
Often, internal egoism prevails over a feeling of love for a loved one. And even loving, we don’t think Continue reading
How to get out of depression after breaking up? First of all, you need to recognize its presence and find out the main symptoms. The leading signs that may indicate a pathology are:
a sharp decrease in the level of performance;
desire to stay alone;
lack of interest in life;
pessimistic attitude to the present and future;
self-destruction; Continue reading
Depression after breaking up: what is it
Alcohol, tobacco and drug addiction are known to everyone. By analogy with them, there is a dependence in relation to a loved one. Fear of loss is comparable to death. To get rid of a state of oppressed feeling, you need a strong desire, a desire to achieve a result and an unwavering will.
Dealing with depression after breaking up is difficult, but possible. As soon as the awareness of the need to be with someone comes, to show love and care, an understanding of oneself will appear. It is important to start with the realization that to love and be loved is a basic human need. Continue reading
But it usually starts small. How to recognize love?
Another person suddenly causes you emotions – not always positive. It can be surprise, interest, or even negative feelings. But it suddenly becomes meaningful to you. Or not a friend – but after a time, when a long-familiar person causes you unusual excitement, interest
To fall in love is to feel euphoria, to become prettier, to mobilize all your strength! The body responds to another person. “We are anxious, and our body releases adrenaline, which speeds up heartbeat and strengthens sweating,” says sexologist Gislen Paris. According to him, in the human body dopamine, Continue reading
The difference between love and falling in love
how to find differences from love and love
So, what is the difference between love and love:
Love is superficial, and love is deep. A lover is a person who cannot imagine his life without a chosen one.
A person in love thinks more about his pleasure from his beloved person, and may not even notice how he feels and what the other wants.
Falling in love can pass as soon as passions subside, and love only grows stronger over the years, blooms.
Love melts like snow in the sun, as soon as a person shows his other side. The idealization of the subject was barely asleep (for example, a person committed an unseemly act, fell ill, losing attractiveness), as the desire to take care of him, to be near does not appear.
Falling in love can be destructive, and love can create and create. For example, a person in love can fight Continue reading