Good Families

Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist
Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted…

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Actual problems of self-realization among youth
If we consider the problems of youth’s self-realization not only from the individual’s side as the complexity of implementing an individual personality, but look at them in general, as problems…

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What are the reasons and what to do if the children do not want to communicate with their father or mother after a divorce
Documents have already been received, announcing the dissolution of the marriage, the issue of the child’s residence has been resolved and the days and times of his meetings with one…

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Crisis after 30 years for men and women

As for the crisis after 30 years in men, it is directly related to the manifestation and self-realization of their own “I”. All that a man wants, living a period of crisis – is to prove to himself and others that he is the same as he was 10 years ago. All the same strong, young, beautiful, etc. Not to say that this desire is bad, but the execution methods are a little lame. Simply put, at this age, men are more than ever ready to leave their families for the sake of self-realization of their desires.

The main difference between a midlife crisis in men and a midlife crisis in women is its destructive power. If the crisis of 30 years in women is primarily aimed at internal change and the woman seeks the Continue reading

Symptoms of the crisis of 30 years

Surely most of us have heard such a phrase as “middle-aged crisis,” but for some reason the majority associates it only with males, which in fact is far from true. The crisis of 30 years in women is as common as the middle-aged crisis in men, the only difference in symptoms.
35 years is an insidious figure. When you finally get your head on your shoulders, but your body begins to fall apart. © Karin Lesh
It’s not worth it if you encounter a similar problem to start to panic, since this is a completely natural process – we begin to comprehend the stage we have passed, to compare our achievements with our plans and dreams. In some cases, such a turning point is even necessary, because it helps you look at your life Continue reading

Perfect man through the eyes of men

A survey on the parameters of a man’s ideality showed that not all guys are ready to give an answer:

“everything is individual, different criteria”;
“never thought”;
“hard to say right away”;
“ideals do not exist.”
Young people are more inclined to evaluate women, although there are those who work on themselves, personality development, and know what parameters to strive for. Probably, it depends on the upbringing, Continue reading

What should be a man in the eyes of a woman?

Men: the perfect man, what is he? Women all their lives live in search of the ideal life partner, I wonder what kind of ideal man he is through the eyes of men and women? Maybe girls dream of a pipe or princes still exist? Today we will conduct an experiment, we compare the male and female point of view on this issue. Is it possible to be an ideal man or women set too high criteria? Can the myth of the ideal man be embodied in life?
What should be a man in the eyes of a woman?
Women love to dream of a perfect lover. In childhood, reading fairy tales, we present a wonderful young man: loving, caring, attentive, sensitive, devoted to his beloved, courageous and with an inheritance, of course, in the form of a kingdom.
But what are the criteria for earthly men, what are they guided by when choosing a life partner?

qualities of an ideal man
An ideal man should possess the following qualities: Continue reading

Why do good families break up?

The psychology of relationships in the family is not an easy topic, psychologists devote a lot of time to it, conduct research, look for causes, consequences.

Let’s talk about the most common reasons leading to difficulties, misunderstanding in the family, lack of understanding:

The presence of an ideal image – the presence of a highly detailed ideal image makes it difficult to meet the necessary person in life. People often do not realize that we live in the real world, where ideals do not exist, spouses have advantages and disadvantages. These people seek to fit their spouse to the desired image, which is unlikely and leads to disappointment. Conclusion: to learn to love a person, not a ghostly image, to accept a loved one along with shortcomings. Continue reading

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Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist
Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted…

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How does self-improvement affect relationships?
Self-development and family - interconnected concepts, how does personality and level of development affect the state of the family - the possibility of formation, strength of relationship, the ability to…

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How to get rid of guilt - a practical guide
Before you start, I want to make a small remark that it is still necessary to feel guilty in some situations - in this way we demonstrate our humanity. A…

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What prevents youth self-actualization
Here are some of the most basic problems of youth self-fulfillment. Social Inconsistency It is unlikely that someone in childhood dreams of becoming a successful plumber or loader. Everyone wants…

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