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Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist
Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted…

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Female psychology in love and relationships
The psychology of women in love is significantly different from that of men, women are emotional, impressionable, love is perceived in a more romantic light, idealization of a loved one…

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How to keep a relationship in marriage?
Search for information, ways to improve the intimate sphere of life. Now a lot of literature is freely available for men and women, but remember - the main thing is…

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What is shyness? Its manifestations and consequences

For most of us, shyness is a sign of something very sweet, kind, even plush. In our eyes, a shy person automatically becomes either a knight or a princess. But in reality, everything is far from being so cute when it comes to oneself, right? After all, to be completely honest, shyness is the same self-doubt, just a side view, and it sends life very much, starting from childhood. There isn’t enough courage to answer the teacher’s question, even if you know the lesson perfectly well, you’re afraid to get to know a new person – in the end, you come to the conclusion that the best solution to the problem is invisibility, some invisibility among society. The purpose of this article is to help many of us go out and finally lose our invisibility cloak and understand how to learn to love and respect ourselves.
Everything reaches me pretty slowly, but I’m embarrassed when something doesn’t work with strangers, and then it completely stops working, and I’m embarrassed even more … © Max Fry

What is shyness? Its manifestations and consequences
shyness
Drawing on the writings of a renowned British psychologist, Raymond Cattel, who devoted much of his Continue reading

How to cope with emotions

Controlling emotions will allow you to more gently and efficiently use your own psychological resources. Only a few manage to achieve absolute success in this area. For example, Buddhists spend hundreds and hundreds of hours spending them in meditation in order to master their inner emotional world. Through many years of practice and meditation, they achieve impressive results. But this does not mean that each of us does not need to strive for this. Frankly, it is unlikely that any of you will achieve the same results, because you need to spend years, or even decades.

emotions as a source of problems
You cannot control what happens, but you can control your reaction to it. It’s all about perception. © Marnie Continue reading

Not expressed emotions as a source of problems

Emotion is an internal subjective attitude of a person to the ongoing processes that surround him. It can be both internal and external stimuli.

emotions as a source of problems
At this point in time, there are two different explanations for the origin of emotions:

physiological (represented by Kennon, James Lange)
psychological (represented by the works of V.P. Simonov)
The difference between these theories is a different understanding and interpretation of the various mechanisms that create the emotional background of a person.

In physiological theory, there are two currents that try to explain the processes of occurrence. The peripheral theory is well expressed in one of the most famous paradoxes and sounds like this: “We feel sad because we are crying; we are afraid because we are trembling. ” According to the authors of the Continue reading

The role of men in the family

The basic qualities that characterize male behavior have not changed much from past centuries. They, as before, remain strength of mind and strength of character, courage and responsibility, the ability to take on the solution of problems for themselves, protect their loved ones and ensure their well-being. A real man is one who knows how to make a decision, and takes full responsibility for it.
The male destiny in the framework of modern society is no longer the ability to earn money to support a family, or to have excellent physical fitness to be ready to defend the homeland. These qualities are undoubtedly very important in the formation of personality, but you should not limit yourself to them only.
The image of a man who should be “a little prettier than a monkey” is no longer relevant. Modern men are Continue reading

Change of roles

Each person comes to this world with a specific purpose, each has his own specific place. The main task of the individual is implementation in a society. But in this article we will not talk about a separate unit of society, not about the formation of personality, but about a specific gender group – about men. Namely, what is men’s destiny, what distinguishes the role of men in primitive society from the current situation in the modern world, how to realize the stronger sex, and what constitutes a model of modern men.

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Female psychology in love and relationships
The psychology of women in love is significantly different from that of men, women are emotional, impressionable, love is perceived in a more romantic light, idealization of a loved one…

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What to do if you fell out of love with your husband. What to do if love is gone.
Sometimes it happens that until recently a bride in love, after a while realizes that she does not love her husband and she is tormented by the question of how…

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Crisis after 30 years for men and women
As for the crisis after 30 years in men, it is directly related to the manifestation and self-realization of their own “I”. All that a man wants, living a period…

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Become what I want! Or a strong desire to change a partner.
It sometimes seems to us that if a person living next to us changes dramatically the way we want it, then family life will get better right away, it will…

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