Sometimes the stories of couples who are on the verge of a divorce begin with proud words – “we lived in perfect harmony for two years and never quarreled, but then, unexpectedly …”. Those who are alone tormented by doubts about the future also touch on this topic: “we have continuous family conflicts, perhaps the only way out is to leave.”
And there are completely radical options: as soon as a semblance of a quarrel arises, one of the couple is ready to immediately slam the door and leave. Sometimes forever. Without trying to resolve conflicts in a relationship. Because in the minds of many quarrels are something that should not be in family life, otherwise it cannot be considered either “successful”, “successful” or even “normal”. The popular picture of the constantly pouring molasses on both sides, it turns out, is terribly tenacious. And alas, it is very destructive.
There is another extreme. When people don’t even wonder “how to build a dialogue?” When they resigned themselves to swearing. Such couples are already tired of posing as a happy family, and now Continue reading
Each person comes to this world with a specific purpose, each has his own specific place. The main task of the individual is implementation in a society. But in this article we will not talk about a separate unit of society, not about the formation of personality, but about a specific gender group – about men. Namely, what is men’s destiny, what distinguishes the role of men in primitive society from the current situation in the modern world, how to realize the stronger sex, and what constitutes a model of modern men.
Anyone who would like to know the difference between a man and a woman should not think and reflect Continue reading
As for the crisis after 30 years in men, it is directly related to the manifestation and self-realization of their own “I”. All that a man wants, living a period of crisis – is to prove to himself and others that he is the same as he was 10 years ago. All the same strong, young, beautiful, etc. Not to say that this desire is bad, but the execution methods are a little lame. Simply put, at this age, men are more than ever ready to leave their families for the sake of self-realization of their desires.
The main difference between a midlife crisis in men and a midlife crisis in women is its destructive power. If the crisis of 30 years in women is primarily aimed at internal change and the woman seeks the Continue reading