Good happy life - possible
You can live a happy life by learning to use the rules of psychology, changing your attitude to life. Happiness is a state of mind; it must be cultivated, radiated,…

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Female psychology in love and relationships
The psychology of women in love is significantly different from that of men, women are emotional, impressionable, love is perceived in a more romantic light, idealization of a loved one…

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How does self-improvement affect relationships?
Self-development and family - interconnected concepts, how does personality and level of development affect the state of the family - the possibility of formation, strength of relationship, the ability to…

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Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist

Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted and borrowed for many years. In this book, the reader will find specific working methods, vivid cases from practice and, more importantly, ideas that help to better understand not only their clients, but also their own professional and family history.
The book is addressed to everyone who in their work is connected with family issues: consultants, school and clinical psychologists and, of course, psychotherapists.

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Conflictology of family life

Causes of Family Conflicts
Many family problems did not arise yesterday. Incomplete families, divorces, marital conflicts, problems of loneliness existed in the past, but did not attract such close attention.

In addition, the man himself has become more demanding in love, in spiritual intimacy and understanding, sex

But everyone has their own paths to happiness. Marriage does not guarantee a person complete happiness, the resolution of all problems at once. Marriage is building relationships with a spouse, children, relatives every day. The process of building relationships at the beginning of a joint life is especially important, that is, mutual adaptation is necessary. The adaptation period is a mandatory stage in the formation of a family. It can last for years or be short. Much depends on the desire, on the ability to go towards each other. Continue reading

Avoiding guilt and overcoming conscience

Since the diapers of each of us have been accustomed to the fact that for each misconduct must be held accountable. Every extra word spoken can cause a storm of indignation, as well as be condemned. On the one hand, this is very good, because, inspiring guilt, we were instilled with control over our own behavior, showing by example what is “good” and what is “bad”. Only one problem – if you go too far with this technique, in the future you can get a person with a full complex of guilt, which he will experience even for the most minor misconduct. And if sometimes a similar (guilt) feeling is necessary, then sometimes it can become a serious life obstacle. That is why you need to figure out for yourself how to get rid of guilt.
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The period of passionate love and honeymoon passes into a life filled with disappointments and everyday problems.
The period of passionate love and honeymoon, passes into a life filled with disappointments and domestic problems. Psychologists note 7 situations when a woman experiences difficulties in marriage and needs…

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How to increase self-esteem?
To the question: "how to find happiness?" There is one answer: stop looking, and start creating. Let's move on to another plane, how to become a woman worthy of love…

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"We quarrel over trifles"
In fact, nothing happens. Many often confuse the cause and the cause of the conflict. Really, any “trifle” can become a reason - he did not call from work, which…

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Why do good families break up?
The psychology of relationships in the family is not an easy topic, psychologists devote a lot of time to it, conduct research, look for causes, consequences. Let's talk about the…

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