How to survive a breakup and learn to be happy: the best tips
Depression after breaking up: what is it Alcohol, tobacco and drug addiction are known to everyone. By analogy with them, there is a dependence in relation to a loved one.…

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How to revive relationships and restore intimacy?
“Love lives for three years” - such an idea was put forward by the famous French writer. It would seem that long-term marriages are clear evidence of the opposite, but…

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How does self-improvement affect relationships?
Self-development and family - interconnected concepts, how does personality and level of development affect the state of the family - the possibility of formation, strength of relationship, the ability to…

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Vitaker K. Midnight Meditation by a Family Therapist

Karl Whitaker will remain in the history of family therapy one of her most “avant-garde” classics: brilliant and controversial, sometimes shockingly harsh, prone to mysterious aphorisms that have been interpreted and borrowed for many years. In this book, the reader will find specific working methods, vivid cases from practice and, more importantly, ideas that help to better understand not only their clients, but also their own professional and family history.
The book is addressed to everyone who in their work is connected with family issues: consultants, school and clinical psychologists and, of course, psychotherapists.

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Become what I want! Or a strong desire to change a partner.

It sometimes seems to us that if a person living next to us changes dramatically the way we want it, then family life will get better right away, it will become just perfect. But this practically does not happen.

A changed husband or wife can, on the contrary, worsen the situation in the family – after all, you once fell in love with this particular person. With its shortcomings and good sides. And he suddenly began to come home from work on time, to look into your eyes and wait for the next instructions for the day. He readily fulfills all your desires and all this without objection and annoying bickering. And always close at hand. The robot is simple, not human, you say in a couple of months. Where is your personality and past, even if not very liked, hobbies? Abrupt changes in a person can still suggest some of his troubles. Continue reading

How does self-improvement affect relationships?

Self-development and family – interconnected concepts, how does personality and level of development affect the state of the family – the possibility of formation, strength of relationship, the ability to receive joy from life? In this article, we consider the main points that contribute to a happy family relationship, discover the secrets of a strong family.
In modern society, the decline of the institution of the family is observed, often young families break up without having lived a year (up to 50% of all divorces). But in general, no more than 60% of marriage unions remain viable. What is the reason: living conditions, education, people have changed?

Psychologists say that the reason in the people themselves – often do not know how to build relationships, do not understand the needs of the spouse and do not aspire to become a good husband or wife, and yet – are not mentally and financially ready to build a family.

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Love addiction
When he's not around, I just can't breathe! I do not know what to do, all my thoughts are occupied by him and only him! Sometimes, when we see each…

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What to do if you fell out of love with your husband. What to do if love is gone.
Sometimes it happens that until recently a bride in love, after a while realizes that she does not love her husband and she is tormented by the question of how…

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Family Contract Basics Questionnaire
Questionnaire "Fundamentals of a family contract" - a list of questions developed by N.I. Kozlov for the prevention of disagreements in the family. Based on the Questionnaire, a Family Agreement…

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Symptoms of the crisis of 30 years
Surely most of us have heard such a phrase as “middle-aged crisis,” but for some reason the majority associates it only with males, which in fact is far from true.…

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